If you think I slacked off when writing this then just let me know in the comments and I will be sure to correct the problems that you see. Youll appreciate your new partner that much more. I started no contact actually immediately, but she initiated contact 4 times over the break up period, and I always replied shortly, because it was about money or some other things, but she never stated she missed me or something like that. I think he follows my posts but never reaches out. We had our first and only kind of argument, she had been a little distant with me for a few days I could sense something wasnt quite right, i went to her house on the weekend we had a nice day together, her brother and mum were there and a few of her brothers friends came over, we had a bbq. That will surely make your ex think less fondly of you and force your ex to move on with more determination and fewer doubts. The best thing you can do is to move on. Now, there are a number of reasons an ex might choose to unfollow you. Don't stalk him. You can do this! Well, if the two of you just have this never ending no contact battle with one another then nothing is going to happen that could help you two reunite. I think a relationship with this person will be difficult because times like this make him want to flee. Defriending after a break up is a very different move for people than removing someone's cell phone number from their phone. Lets say that you are doing the no contact rule and you happen to run into a stubborn guy who wont contact you at all. It needs two to tango right? She said she still loves me and misses me but knwing she cant guarantee that she would compromise on us, she would like us to become friends instead. He talked about maybe how things annoyed him that he hasnt spoke of but wouldnt tell me what they were. Dumpers dont think nearly as much about you, as you do about them. but I will appreciate your opinion about my story. Here is the deal though. He broke up 3 weeks ago. Thats when they improve their perceptions of their exes and oftentimes even interact with them. Ive stated to her when she broke up with me that I would never come back, and she told me she wanted me to come back but as a friend. Take steps to move on with your lifefor your own sake. But it can also be your way of influencing the way he thinks about you. We both have been in rough relationships and on top I lost my daughter more than 2 years ago. These things are completely out of your control. I done so much for her in the last 2 and half months helped her with things, advice on stuff, picked her daughter up with her and thats fine I done it because I like her I expect nothing in return for good deeds but its made me feel like cant she see i made one silly mistake I was frustrated people have arguments in relationships you learn about each other in a way from these type of things!! But hey, I was young and I didnt know how to handle my emotions. Hi, But then again, you dont want your ex to think about you in a bad light. Well, one thing that you can automatically assume is that a guy who doesnt contact you during the no contact period always has a bit of stubbornness to him. To start with a little bit of hope to cling to, rest assured that dumpers dont just forget dumpees. I also didn't ever reach out to her and talk to her! In other words, they get addicted to the compliments and admiration they get in a relationship and they convince themselves that the girl has to do all the work. He didn't unfriend me for a while (during which time he started posting pictures of himself with other girls), but then he unfriended and blocked me completely and kicked me from a group in which he was the admin. Here is a Tips , Pretend like , you ain't even aware of such activities of her . He wants to make sure that you'll see his name on the screen after a week of radio silence. Ok, so most men are more than happy to feel victimized if they were the one who had to initiate the breakup. Make sure you dont pressure him. If he's tired of being with you, then doing no contact is your way of respecting his decision. The BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS SUCK IT UP AND PUSH FORWARD! U wish That for your Ex no wonder he left you and you deserve it. Sure, you wont be on your exs mind as much as you would if you annoyed your ex by begging every day. I have kids and we broke up because he couldnt see a future for us dispite saying he is in love with me, Im the one blah blah blah. Hope to hear from you soon Zan! In the beginning he was periodically call me and text me very little now that Im at this point he has been calling me every day as often as multiple times a day. Keep the Faith . So, they are probably going to be thinking of the whole no contact experience as a game. I dont mean her full attention towards me, i even asked only a little of her time. This time she didnt want to accept it with me or anyone that would tell her fuck you. I want you to think about something for a moment. They cant break out of the downward spiral, so ending them is the only way to outgrow them. Hope you get better soon. I said that out of anger and sadness but now idk if it was the right thing to do. They may not think about them as strongly and frequently as you think about your ex (especially right after the breakup), but they certainly dont erase dumpees from their memory. He may discover what he actually was experiencing before when he said he was "tired of you," was just the normal up and down of relationship. youll need to understand the process we teach) so if you dont have that foundation I highly recommend you check out my best selling program to get it. This internal battle between his heart and his pride will rage on for days. First though, I would like to take the spotlight off of him for a while and talk about YOU. I thought about it and I wanted to give her a second chance but she now wants time as well apparently because of unfairly I treated her. The truth is that he doesnt really need to contact you. Assuming that your guy has followed the progression I outlined above and is holding resentment towards you for the breakup that occurred you can probably expect the following things to be going on in his mind: You can always expect a little bit of stubbornness to be involved when it comes to someone using silence as revenge. I contacted some close friends to talk to him but he said he wants nothing to do with me. Your ex wont forget about you if you go no contact. On the things that she wants to do.. coz I cant be in a relationship where only one person is doing it all. Her last post was about our dogs (4 years) birthday, but she broke up with us 4 months ago and is no longer part of our dogs life.so I am very confused since it has now been 7-days since we have not spoke. How do I tell him all this for a second chance? If anything, they are going to use you to get over you, and then discard you when they meet someone else. I have been through this several times. I guess the two go hand and hand dont they? Make sure you remain honest if you decide to speak. All of the sudden, they are telling you that he has gone MIA on them and not returning their texts or attempts to get ahold of him. However, when it comes time to actually build or grow your relationship communication is going to be required. Even if your willpower is strong, it is not uncommon to go weak at the knees upon receiving a text or phone call from your ex-partner. My point is that you never know when he could contact you. That immediately closes your exs possibility of returning back to you. Thanks! He responded again within 2hours.after that NC is continuing. 1. We were not at full plus capacity and we began bickering with each other. She is obviously only interested in herselfwill never be able to put your needs before hers when it really matters. You cant fix that or them. Let's look at a few other benefits of following the no contact rule. Maybe it's because they want to warn their ex that they're about to disappear or maybe some people just think that you need to tell your ex that you're going to stop . We are perceived as weak by other men if we talk about our feelings. Thanks. Your email address will not be published. Its me, im bitches. I know that was an incredibly weird picture for me to paint right now but the point I am trying to make here is that your ex boyfriend knows that deep down HIS silence will hurt you and its his only way of getting back at you without actually seeming crazy. He hasnt replied since and its been 2 weeks hes really stubborn and is very protective of his pride. Why Is The Dumper Silent After A Breakup? Its been almost 2wks now. To you, its all or nothing, as there is no middle option. Your ex won't forget about you during no contact To start with a little bit of hope to cling to, rest assured that dumpers don't just forget dumpees. How do I know this? There are a lot of different reasons for why an ex boyfriend would refuse to contact you during the no contact period. What about when you were in high school and you really liked a boy who wouldnt give you the time of day? Taking his or her focus off you and putting it on something or someone else would allow your ex to distance himself or herself from issues that created a lot of negative emotions. He needs to see that you mean what you say and are willing to move on from him as you are allowing this pattern to continue means that you will never progress in your relationship or life. . Let him decide if he wants to be with you. Heres the issue. If a guy has broken up with you the emotions he is going to experience after the breakup may cause him to feel like he was the victim. Hope that you have moved on and are happy with your self. She messaged me that week in the evenings, I never started the conversation once I thought leave her to give her space but when she messaged Id reply. Their status messages are going to show up on your news feed. Be flawlessly polite and kind with all contact, but NEVER beg for your ex back. (And I hadn't even made any move online to suggest how I felt or that anything had changed in my life.) Anyways, it seems that I have developed a new pet peeve when it comes to communicating with you ladies. I dont know if many of you know this but this website wasnt actually supposed to be a blog. I am trying so so hard to push past my urges not to message him. Be mindful of your response to their text. Fourth, Over Analyzing. For some reason every time I think of this example I think of your ex boyfriend just sitting in a dark room chanting: Ill show her Ill show her Ill show her.. The worse life treats your ex, the more likely it is that your ex will remember you, ponder about you, contact you, and reconcile (or try to reconcile) with you. 3. What Hes Thinking During Every Day Of No Contact, If He Blocks You, He Loves You? Originally, I thought it would be fun to write a massive program on how to get your ex boyfriend back and see what happened. In other words, in that massive guide I actually recommend that you are the first one to make contact with your ex after the no contact period. We were living in a fairyworld. Do I reach out? The first person to reach out loses the game and they will refuse to lose that game. I sent another 2 long stupid messages saying Ill be there for her I care for her, lets take the chance of our life, i see her and her daughter both together so Id not treat her daughter any different even though she isnt mine as she was worried about that too, the thing is after 2 months she even told her daughter I was her bf which I thought was a big step!! January 15, 2023 12:57pm. This is the 1st time we havent spoken. What about then? I created this section with the purpose of detailing those reasons so I can hopefully give you more insight into what is going through a guys mind when he commits one of these reasons.. I am going to assume that a large number of the readers of this guide are currently in the middle of their no contact period. The idea of co-parenting with a narcissist does not exist. The call ended well and he texted a few hours later saying he really enjoyed speaking and thanked me for being so understanding. We laughed a lot, had lots of fun together and didnt really argue. dont Give her the satisfaction of oh here he goes contacting me again become a ghost to her and let her reach out to you. The first thing I do is answer my coaching clients (since its common for them to have a lot of questions.) For example, if you go into the no contact rule dead set on believing that your ex is going to blow up your phone with messages like: (This text example was taken from an excerpt of one of my booksThe Texting Bible.). It is very difficulty to remain friends with your ex especially soon after the breakup. Lets say that you decide that you want to embark on the 30 day no contact period. Every day you count down the days. Every time he opens his social media apps, he should receive a new notification on how awesome your life is. Its really driving me crazy now. What about when you were a little bit older and saw something at the store that you really wanted but they were simply silent to your request? If your ex chose to do so, let her. Im in not conact rule right now, respecting her decition and trying to heal my self as well. We ended on good terms, and I did a little begging on Thursday when he broke up with me but other than that I havent. 3. I got a positive reply saying hes really missed talking over the last few days and would really like to talk soon. 3. At first glance, you wouldnt think so since no contact is generally a very easy to understand idea: No Contact- A rule stating that you are not allow to call, text or get in touch with your ex boyfriend for a certain period of time. With the help from my friends I started to notice that this relationship aint going anywhere. When an ex contacts you after no contact and you broke up because you were too distant Let's say that you and your ex broke up because they didn't feel like you were there for them enough. In the beginning of this month my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didnt feel the same as he felt before the lockdown, he told he as been feeling like this for 3 weeks now (its important to know that he suffers from diagnosed anxiety). Do you remember what I said the main purpose of the no contact rule was? Since its come to the breakup, your ex can either fix those issues or simply ignore them and carry them into the next relationship. Girls often do that when they want to have your attention. 6. Some mistakes that will complicate things for you and make your ex want to move on more than ever before are: If you want your ex to forget about you quickly, theres no better way to go about this than to make your ex feel a lot of unwanted emotions. I say things i dont mean, i curse a lot and has been paranoid. She told me she will compromise. Its not that we dont care. Once you've gotten your ex to refriend you, go ahead and ask her to meet up with you. The point I am trying to make here is that the more attached you are to someone the greater the chances that them ignoring you will affect you. We dated for a year and then broke up, he didnt think his feeling were where mine are and whilst they are growing for me he fears he wont get to a stage where I am. One example is that she is fond of writing (novels, short story etc). I havent messaged him for over 5 weeks. She told me she couldnt compromise. (Hey, who doesnt love a Captain American meme?). But also talked about how he should have made more effort. It's So Frustrating! We were together 5 years with a 9 month break at the beginning. Allow her to experience what its like to be with others if thats what she truly wants. Everyone is saying to not text her that she has to be the one that texts back. They prevent you from moving on. So, do yourself a favor and dont turn into that on me. I just dont know why he keeps calling and at this point Im worried that if I talk to him I will lose control of my emotions and would have to start back over again if he decides to not want to be in a relationship and just wants to be friends, which Im not interested in since he did play a father figure role with my daughter and I just dont want to confuse her. she looks like shes doing well without me, I have been so sad the month and I just want her back and i dont know what to do anymore. Hey April I would say that you need to complete 30 days minimum or 45 max before reaching out, Hi, we have been together for 8 months. Well, what we know so far is that they feel entitled to a response. You will become that bothersome ex. He wanted to meet and said that he understood that he loves me but is not ready to propose. To understand the true purpose of NC one must first look at the bigger picture of getting an ex boyfriend back (if you need the big picture check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.). The best way I can answer whether your ex will forget about you during no contact is to say that dumpers dont forget their exes. She said thankyou we were laying in bed at this time and she started to kiss me the first time she had all day, I then stupidly thought to try to initiate sex with her as I thought she was kissing me so why not see, she said is that all I want and is that the only reason I stayed, it wasnt at all, but I asked her why she had been avoiding it as we hadnt had sex in 2 weeks, she had told me previously how important it was to her in a relationship. But they could give you hope, which will have the same effect on you as visiting a fortune-teller. If you're the one that severed the relationship or did something that forced your partner to break it off with you, they may have some hurt feelings or anger issues to sort through. Thank you so much Updated. What to say? Nothing special just saying he didnt mean to break my heart, it was the last thing he wanted and sending love. I just want to stay alive in his memories ^^. My last act of love for you Alison is to leave you be as you said you wanted to be. One of the most overlooked factors when it comes to the no contact rule is how the actual breakup will affect your boyfriend. Its just the way it works. But what do you think is going on in his mind during this period of no contact? You Win Your Power Back. And that lesson is that you need to invest in yourself and let your ex be free. Well, just because a man is stubborn and wont contact you doesnt mean that he doesnt miss you it just means what we all already know, hes an idiot :p . Ive been broken up with my ex for about a month and 2 weeks. If the dumper feels guilty or remorseful for leaving the dumpee (especially if she left the dumpee for someone else), wouldnt no-contact actually help the dumper move on quicker? I am doing no contact but he had already been pretty silent. I have heard nothing. One of the most interesting trends I found relating to the no contact rule is that the women that have the attitude that I outlined above always seem to do well in the big picture when it comes getting their ex boyfriends back. Or it definitely etely over for him? It sounds like you probably had feelings for your ex as well. This victimized role he is going to place himself in is going to cause him to want revenge on you in some way shape or form. It can also be used to detach yourself from a narcissistic or abusive partner. Either way, no contact is your savior as it will stop your incessant need for love and connection and help you realize that if your ex doesnt want to be with you, someone else will. No contact is the best and only option for most dumpees especially right after the break-up. Just not for her. And also look into different living situations so you are not living together long term while broken up. This website has a lot of information about the no contact rule since it is an essential stepping stone to getting your ex boyfriend back. Does this mean that you are going to have to be the one to press the action after the NC rule is completed? Love your honesty, made me really think about my actions and his. All of this is irrelevant if she doesnt get to the last stage in decent time when you still want her. This is especially true when it comes to men who are extremely stubborn. She tried to get us back together but I said I need time to think. While those emotions may be negative they are still emotions and if you play your cards right you can turn them in your favor. Prevents you from seeing what he's up to because sometimes you really don't want to know. You get to control when the conversation is started and assuming you play your cards right when it will end. Dont ever think that its not. Also, I enjoyed reading your 5-stages of grief for the dumper. Which is fine. No need to unfriend or block him if you take these steps. He begs and pleads until I come back then decides he doesnt want to commit all over again. She's telling you that she wanted to stay but it hurt her to do so and her unfriending you is her taki. They will sit around and say, Hes going to have to text ME first if he wants a date with me.. He said I deserve better and cannot wait. What does this mean?) Anxiety sucks tbh Im a good person i surely showed that to her and her family. Mind you create a rough timeline (with a period of time for each phase?) He wants to know if you miss him, too. The no contact rule is meant to tap into that loss and cause an ex boyfriend to contact you but is that the true purpose of the no contact rule? You see, a large portion of women who visit this site are under the impression that all they have to do to get their ex back is the no contact rule. Here are some things that could go wrong for your ex during no contact and make your ex think about you: Most people think about their exes when their lives are going very bad. I am going to make this really simple for you. Do that by asking your ex why he or she reached out and responding appropriately. Hi V, so I would suggests that you reach out at day 30 since you were getting along well. So, we have a guy who hasnt contacted you at all during your 30 day no contact period. Heck, most people make relationship decisions based on their emotions. This is always best done over the phone, because it's easier for you to attract her by being confident and making her laugh, smile and feel good to be talking to you again. Hes gone abroad so I am implementing the no contact for the week hes away. Your ex might have unfriended you on social media, but there could be a range of reasons why they haven't blocked you. You dont like the way romantic rejection feels, so you want to once again feel the way you felt when you were with your ex. Your ex will think about you more because youll become mysterious and make your ex wonder what youre doing and how youre coping with the breakup. They may not like dumpees and have much respect for them, but they dont just forget they dated them. I don't know why so many people feel the need to tell their ex that they plan to use No Contact. I was hurt deeply and Im just starting to feel better. How else can you meet other interesting and more beautiful girls if you're hanging on the memory of an indecisive girl. That means there were some big unresolved issues your ex couldnt or didnt have the determination to fix. Your ex wanted to be independent. Obviously she was very upset about the whole not being contacted situation. How Does The Dumper Feel After A Month Of No Contact? To reiterate my previous statement, staying in deliberate contact with your ex that doesnt want to hear, see or be reminded of you, is a huge mistake. When your ex texts during no contact, you aren't aware of what their intention might be. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year because i felt like she is taking me for granted. The no contact rule was born from this type of thinking. This is the first step. For that one silly argument she wants to end it!! Well, if you take a look at the true purpose of no contact (to make him feel like he misses you) you cant really tell if he misses you or not if he never contacts you. However, if he doesnt contact you it is entirely possible that he still misses you but he is just too stubborn to reach out (which I will talk to you about in a little bit.). It became more fight then friends with us. I love and miss him so much, Hey Claire, it is only you who can deicide if you want to move on or not, I am happy to give you advice with whichever path you choose. You know, how breakups are hard on everyone involved. I just received a text at the 24 day mark. You have managed your expectations about him reaching out during NC but you are a human being after all and you cant help but wonder why he has been silent on his end for 10 days straight. Well, like I explained above. He broke up with me after 1.5years over 4mths ago because he lost the connection as we didn't spend enough time due to conflicting schedules. Or, is it a facade? There are two main reasons why your ex (who consistently treated you poorly), unfollowed you on social media: He just can't. He's hurt either by you or by having to see your photos. If you think that no contact is guaranteed to: Then I have some really bad news for you. Ex blocked me during no contact, what does that mean 4,570 views Premiered Feb 22, 2021 87 Dislike Share Save TheTruth 1.08K subscribers 52 She's not my friend on Instagram and my page. However, I still did not feel confident as a woman, I did not feel that we were planning the future together. So what do you say when your ex contacts you during no contact (or after no contact)? Even if he hasnt texted me? Its been a week, probably not long enough. If you don't unfriend your ex on social media, this could become an uncomfortable reality for you. I'm guessing that maybe whoever shes dating tells her to block you. He got angry and broke up with me. Essentially what I am going to be doing here is bridging the gap between you and your ex boyfriend. You see, men and women are very similar in many respects. I have no intention of getting him back or being with him . Or would some variation help? I feel that women often have an advantage over men because women are constantly talking to other women about their feelings. Female psychology after a breakup has shown that women tend to have a more intense emotional response after a breakup when compared to men. During this conversation, he did not mention a meeting or anything like that. Of course, but he doesnt really need to in order for the NC to work. It depends on what they say and if your ex keeps texting you, but in general you should respond to an ex boyfriend or girlfriend's text by being happy and lighthearted. My pride told me not to do it but my heart wanted to so bad. A mans heart is stubborn. Not only for her but for you. So far we have talked about the progression that a guy goes through (in his mind) if he is going to get back at you. Dont remember? She cheated before. My bf and I were together over 6 years. Some of these things could make good reasons. In all, there are 3 legitimate reasons that come to mind. You cried at the top of your lungs until they paid attention to you. You need to have some self respect and learn to love yourself more. My Husband Still Works With The Woman He Had An Affair With, posting depressing things online and feeling sorry for yourself. In fact, a lot of readers love when I go on one of my tangents about how important it is to be logical. However, there is also a time where it is very important to be emotional. I just control my anxiety and she did not bother helping me get through it even if it was her fault why i developed this. 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